First let me start by saying to all of the mothers out there, you are doing a great job. Whether you are a working mama or a stay at home mama, it is not easy being a mother while still trying to maintain your sense of self. I have had the experience of being both parties and I have to to a realization that their are some pros and cons of being either of the two. I know that many young mothers out there are facing the same experiences and I just thought I should share with you guys. By the way, I do believe that we all need somebody we can relate to hence I am writing this blog.
Who do I consider as a stay at home mama?
Basically it speaks for it self, a stay at home mother is someone who stays home to take care of her children and maintain her household; she does not work.
Who do I consider as a working mama?
This is a mother that works to take care of her children and maintain her household after work.
Pros and Cons of being a stay at home mother.
You are there for the kids all the time.
There is the satisfaction of being with your child. You will witness all their milestones.
The routine depends on the kid’s habits and convenience.
Kids feel more secure, safe, and happy as the mother is always with them.
Kids become dependent on you for everything.
Your spouse may not understand the difficulties of raising a child.
Can get boring over time, and make you feel sad.
You are so engrossed with the welfare of the children that you may get cut off from the developments in the outside world.
Pros and Cons of being a working mother.
You are there before and after the working hours.
You feel guilty for leaving your kid every day, especially when they are ill. You will miss out on some sweet moments.
You set the routine based on your work timings and the child has to adjust to it.
Children might experience separation anxiety. They will miss you when you are away.
You have the satisfaction of continuing work, and being financially independent.
Kids may learn to do things and become independent early in their lives.
Your spouse may understand the demands of being a mother and a career woman. He may help you in doing the household chores and raising the kids.
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